ENJOY SEX EVEN IN MENOPAUSE. REKINDLE YOUR SEX LIFE IN MENOPASUSE;
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If you are in a relationship, Sex and Menopause is a subject which needs
to be dealt with as a couple.
Many marriages will be affected by the female’s surge of testosterone
prior to her Menopause which can leave her temperamental and sexually
insatiable – and this is particularly noticeable (and often rather annoying
for her man when he begins to become aware of a gradual lessening of
libido at the same age.
But it’s the mood swings and hot sweats that can really get a girl down.
Bad tempered outbursts, hot sweats, lack of sleep, the feeling that we
have no identity of our own accompanied by the female equivalent of a
troublesome erection that won’t go away.
And, once things settle down, she then starts to feel the full effects of the
Menopause with a drop in sexual desire most commonly due to
problems with vaginal thinning as a result of the reduction in oestrogen
supplies. Sex starts to hurt, whether it’s at entry or exit or during the
thrusting. A stray sharp fingernail or hangnail can cause a tiny split that
will feel like a gash the size of the Mariana Trench.
However, the consequences of not dealing with Menopause together can
exacerbate a man’s version of the same event. He’s starting to notice
thinning on top and increasing girth around his middle and he’s not
getting sex. She doesn’t feel desirable and, ipso facto, does not desire
him. He feels unwanted and starts to search for a trophy girlfriend to
emphasize his battered masculinity.
And, if you’re in a relationship after a divorce, it’s hard for the man to
adjust if his woman used to be a voluptuous vamp and has suddenly
turned into a dried up prude.
It is vital that you work through these issues as a partnership. You have
to talk to each other, explain your fears and be open about what is
happening to your bodies if you want to grow old together.
One of the best things for dealing with thinning is regular vaginal
activity. If you use plenty of lube or even wear one of the new skin-like
latex-free condoms, this can make the whole event far less painful and,
therefore, far more likely to be successful. Fear of what may happen can
be a huge turn off. If a girl has confidence that it’s not going to hurt, she
is bound to be more receptive to her man’s desires.
And if he encourages her to use vibrators or pelvic floor exercisers to
stimulate the area, this will also help to boost circulation to the area and
prevent further thinning – as well as ensuring that her cunt retains its
elasticity and muscle control, adding to his pleasure.
At the end of the day, Menopause is something that must be gone
through. Some women will bear it more easily than others – especially if
they have the full support of their menfolk. And to lose the intimacy of
sex and possibly an entire relationship for want of a bit of care and
attention during what is a natural phenomenon would be a crime.
NEXT: Boost your libido. Boost Libido In Women With These Easy Tips
THIS POST SHOULD HAVE BEEN TITLED
''MENOPAUSE: TOWARDS A BETTER SEX LIFE''
If you are in a relationship, Sex and Menopause is a subject which needs
to be dealt with as a couple.
Many marriages will be affected by the female’s surge of testosterone
prior to her Menopause which can leave her temperamental and sexually
insatiable – and this is particularly noticeable (and often rather annoying
for her man when he begins to become aware of a gradual lessening of
libido at the same age.
But it’s the mood swings and hot sweats that can really get a girl down.
Bad tempered outbursts, hot sweats, lack of sleep, the feeling that we
have no identity of our own accompanied by the female equivalent of a
troublesome erection that won’t go away.
And, once things settle down, she then starts to feel the full effects of the
Menopause with a drop in sexual desire most commonly due to
problems with vaginal thinning as a result of the reduction in oestrogen
supplies. Sex starts to hurt, whether it’s at entry or exit or during the
thrusting. A stray sharp fingernail or hangnail can cause a tiny split that
will feel like a gash the size of the Mariana Trench.
However, the consequences of not dealing with Menopause together can
exacerbate a man’s version of the same event. He’s starting to notice
thinning on top and increasing girth around his middle and he’s not
getting sex. She doesn’t feel desirable and, ipso facto, does not desire
him. He feels unwanted and starts to search for a trophy girlfriend to
emphasize his battered masculinity.
And, if you’re in a relationship after a divorce, it’s hard for the man to
adjust if his woman used to be a voluptuous vamp and has suddenly
turned into a dried up prude.
It is vital that you work through these issues as a partnership. You have
to talk to each other, explain your fears and be open about what is
happening to your bodies if you want to grow old together.
One of the best things for dealing with thinning is regular vaginal
activity. If you use plenty of lube or even wear one of the new skin-like
latex-free condoms, this can make the whole event far less painful and,
therefore, far more likely to be successful. Fear of what may happen can
be a huge turn off. If a girl has confidence that it’s not going to hurt, she
is bound to be more receptive to her man’s desires.
And if he encourages her to use vibrators or pelvic floor exercisers to
stimulate the area, this will also help to boost circulation to the area and
prevent further thinning – as well as ensuring that her cunt retains its
elasticity and muscle control, adding to his pleasure.
At the end of the day, Menopause is something that must be gone
through. Some women will bear it more easily than others – especially if
they have the full support of their menfolk. And to lose the intimacy of
sex and possibly an entire relationship for want of a bit of care and
attention during what is a natural phenomenon would be a crime.
NEXT: Boost your libido. Boost Libido In Women With These Easy Tips
