Thursday, June 5

ENJOY SEX EVEN IN MENOPAUSE. REKINDLE YOUR SEX LIFE IN MENOPASUSE

ENJOY SEX EVEN IN MENOPAUSE. REKINDLE YOUR SEX LIFE IN MENOPASUSE; 

THIS POST SHOULD HAVE BEEN TITLED 


''MENOPAUSE: TOWARDS A BETTER SEX LIFE''


If you are in a relationship, Sex and Menopause is a subject which needs 
to be dealt with as a couple. 

Many marriages will be affected by the female’s surge of testosterone 
prior to her Menopause which can leave her temperamental and sexually 
insatiable – and this is particularly noticeable (and often rather annoying 
for her man when he begins to become aware of a gradual lessening of 
libido at the same age. 


But it’s the mood swings and hot sweats that can really get a girl down. 
Bad tempered outbursts, hot sweats, lack of sleep, the feeling that we 
have no identity of our own accompanied by the female equivalent of a 
troublesome erection that won’t go away. 

And, once things settle down, she then starts to feel the full effects of the 
Menopause with a drop in sexual desire most commonly due to 
problems with vaginal thinning as a result of the reduction in oestrogen 
supplies. Sex starts to hurt, whether it’s at entry or exit or during the 
thrusting. A stray sharp fingernail or hangnail can cause a tiny split that 
will feel like a gash the size of the Mariana Trench. 


However, the consequences of not dealing with Menopause together can 
exacerbate a man’s version of the same event. He’s starting to notice 
thinning on top and increasing girth around his middle and he’s not 
getting sex. She doesn’t feel desirable and, ipso facto, does not desire 
him. He feels unwanted and starts to search for a trophy girlfriend to 
emphasize his battered masculinity. 

And, if you’re in a relationship after a divorce, it’s hard for the man to 
adjust if his woman used to be a voluptuous vamp and has suddenly 
turned into a dried up prude. 
It is vital that you work through these issues as a partnership. You have 
to talk to each other, explain your fears and be open about what is 
happening to your bodies if you want to grow old together. 

One of the best things for dealing with thinning is regular vaginal 
activity. If you use plenty of lube or even wear one of the new skin-like 
latex-free condoms, this can make the whole event far less painful and, 
therefore, far more likely to be successful. Fear of what may happen can 
be a huge turn off. If a girl has confidence that it’s not going to hurt, she 
is bound to be more receptive to her man’s desires.

And if he encourages her to use vibrators or pelvic floor exercisers to 
stimulate the area, this will also help to boost circulation to the area and 
prevent further thinning – as well as ensuring that her cunt retains its 
elasticity and muscle control, adding to his pleasure. 


At the end of the day, Menopause is something that must be gone 
through. Some women will bear it more easily than others – especially if 
they have the full support of their menfolk. And to lose the intimacy of 
sex and possibly an entire relationship for want of a bit of care and 
attention during what is a natural phenomenon would be a crime. 

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